How Growing Up Without Family Boundaries Affected My Early Career

Fear of making decisions. Fear of making mistakes.

Jess Mailinh
Published in
6 min readMay 19, 2022

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Struggling with creating boundaries and setting yourself up for professional success due to family enmeshment
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Respecting your elders is a core value in many families. In Southeast Asian culture, this can quickly translate into abuse of power and emotional control when there are no boundaries.

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Jess Mailinh
Invisible Illness

I teach developers how to create technical content that isn’t boring. Love to share useful info. BPD & mental health advocate. First-gen. INFJ. 🐦@jessmailinh